Home-cooked dinner

last weekend, we cooked dinner at his place. coz we did not know what to have for dinner, so he thought of going to the supermarket to buy a few stuff to cook at home. he wanted mashed potatoes as the main dish, so we bought a few potatoes. we also got cheesy sausages, frozen pizza, corn, baked beans, canned soup, and orange juice.

too much potatoes O.o there were leftovers too. now we know that 4 potatoes for each person is way too much haha (n00bs). but it turned out well, i have to say. kudos to da Calveh for blending in the correct amount of butter, milk, salt and pepper with the well-mashed potatoes ^^ yummy yummy~

btw, there were too much potatoes that we decided not to do the beans, pizza and soup. wise decision, its too much food even for the 2 big eaters~!

i had fun =) its nice to cook at home hehe~

mashed potatoes, cheesy sausages, corn, orange juice

Hmmm yea bb it was toooo much lol, but makin it was fun heh is that the first dinner we worked together on heh? hmmm so when is our next dinner cook out? heh bb you need to learn to make em steak heh then we can make steak for me and fish for you hehe

next round lets make mash potatoes (3 is enough) and beans with steamed corn, juice, sausages.. hmm lets see what els we need lolol hehe.... yea and we learn to make gravy for the mash potatoes heh.

Happy Valentine's Day!

what a lovely surpise i had today. just 15 or 20 minutes before work was over, Calvin called me on the phone and asked me to go downstairs. i was like "huh? work not over yet wor". he kept insisting for me to go downstairs, so i went. i almost ecstatic, there he was just outside the glass doors with a bouquet of flowers~! my goodness, i was so thrilled, i swear my body was trembling in excitement. i asked why didn't he just wait a bit longer to give it to me after i leave the office? his intention was so that i could show off haha~! the lilies are beautiful, i love it <3
Happy lehh... hehe now bb can show show, people sure say waaaaaaaaa..... hehe suppose to come by in the aftrnoon for Lunch wit bb, but work was grabbing my leg apa boleh buattttt. Well at least i could fly down to meet you in time hehehe. The receptionist asked if i was the delivery guy.... i said ... its ok i am waiting.... HAPPY Valentine's day sugar plum


he went for a coffee while waiting for me to finish work. then we went to klcc to meet Jimmy and Cheryl for a double date dinner at The Apartment. food was good, place was cozy. love the complimentary heart-shaped chocolates hehe. it was a good day. all i wanted was to see him and spend valentine's day together. but i got more :) totally unexpected~!
heheh well this is payback time for times i did not get bb anything or not enough time for us hehe

CNY 2008

it's been great. from 2nd day til today the 6th day, i have spent everyday with him. we went visiting houses of both our friends, collected angpau and ate a lot. and last night i bunked over at his place too. spent good 36 hours nonstop with him all the way. and guess what? i miss him already, after only 2 hours being away from him :(
anyway it was fun. yesterday we went for a movie date after a looong time. caught 'sweeney todd' before its taken off the screens. and today we went for pool, after a looong time too. sort of a double date with Jo and Dennis hehe.
hmm on sunday, i just found out that my dear friend Sharon passed away a few days earlier. i was so upset and he was there to give me a warm comforting hug.
oh well.. altho we did not get to go on a getaway trip to Genting, but at least we got to spend lots of time together.. :)

Recap of what happened so far (2008)

27Jan'08
he's outstation to malacca and johore, rushing projects. that means i didnt see him again. it has been so long since we spent good time together. we're both so tired, we wish we could have a getaway trip to escape from all this even for a day.
I too wish to see my baby soon, been so long working non stop through the weeks, need a dose of my babyJ. hmm i too hope to have a trip... a trip where i can have a peace of mind and only have baby on my mind

7Feb'08
it's today :) its the first day of cny. i will be seeing Calvin 2moro finally, after what seemed like a long time. he's finally on a well-deserved break, so i think i can see him a bit more now. oh, how i miss him so... i wonder if he does too?
Of coz i misses you lotsssss hehe.. me to cant wait to see baby...hmmmm

Recap of what happened so far (2007)

3Jan'07
i was upset at myself coz i feel totally underachieved compared to my siblings, like a black sheep. i called him and he comforted me by saying that i'm not a black sheep but merely just a thorn among the roses - different. i was thankful to have him to comfort me in my times of need.

14Feb'07
did not see him for valentine's day coz he had a bad day at work and he couldn't get out :( kinda sad, but i understand...

18-20Feb'07
its cny, and i visited his home on the 1st day. he visited mine on the 3rd. i took him to visit a couple of my frens and he took me to visit a few of his lol. lots of angpau, food, drinking and gambling. it was fun~

19Mar'07
on this day i decided that Calvin is psychic. haha~! i've always thought of myself as a good 'actress' to cover up my sadness with fake smiles. but he could always always see thru me. i insisted i had a headache but he persisted that sth was wrong and it wasn't just a headache. he was right, coz my mom made me upset again by nagging about my choice of a partner. sure there's nothing he could do. but he merely wanted me to share my pain so i won't suffer alone :) isn't it great to have a man who actually knows what you're thinking?

20May'07
finally got to see him after 2 long weeks of separation. we were clingy to each other all night. we were at his fren's housewarming and his condo was lovely. Calvin kept telling me to save money to get a nice home of ourselves :) it was nice to hear that, it means that he wants to spend his life with me.

2Jun'07
i had him pick me up for my company's participation at the RelayForLife event at bkt jalil coz i didn't want to leave my car there overnight. he came altho he was unwell with a terrible headache and developing fever. i had my colleague to pick me up from his house instead. i hated to have left him home alone and sick...

3Jun'07
i return to his house after the relay and he still had a fever. i took him to see a doctor and got an injection. took him him and tucked him in bed. nobody was home so i walked out to a nearby store to buy instant oats coz he hasn't been eating at all. i was extremely tired from being awake all night at the relay but i stayed alert to take care of him. but i accidentally fell asleep. had Jimmy to send me home coz there's no way Calvin could do it, i wouldn't allow it.

4Jun'07
he wasn't feeling any better so i went over to drive him to the doctor's again. the doc refered him to a hospital coz it was suspected dengue. it hurts me to see him so sick :( it was mild, but it made him lose appetite, lose weight, and always grumpy.

*everyday i smsed him to check with his health progress. he recovered well.

23Jun'07
his dad seemed to like me enough to tell me that he regards me that i'm "one of the family" hehe. but then again he had had a bit to drink, so... :P

2July'07
angry at my dad for smsing Calvin telling him to get me home early, without seeking my consent first. this is interference~!

17July'07
for our 2nd anniversary, we just had a simple dinner at secret recipe so that we could share a piece of cake hehe. my gift is a custom made audio CD, with love songs that we both love that has great meaning to us. it even comes with a CD case complete with a cover and a lil booklet of song list, a love letter, and my own poetry.

26-28July'07
another "honeymoon" trip, together with Jimmy and Cheryl. we had a wonderful time at Langkawi. if u ask me, i tot we didnt have enough time there and it wasn't quite like how i imagined. but nevertheless it was a good trip. we had lots of booze, cigs and chocs. heaven~

16Sep'07
had a handmade card for his birthday. baked a cake too, but it was absolutely terrible, i had him threw it out. the new recipe was a disaster >.<

13Nov'07
this is the first time that we played an arcade game together =D we both used to play TimeCrisis a lot, and watching other ppl play just got us a lil nostalgic, so we got some tokens and played til we ran out of tokens XD it was sooo much fun~!

17Nov'07
earlier, he got me a fossil watch as a birthday gift :) i love it~! he picked me up in the morning and we went for lunch with Jimmy and Cheryl at section17. back to his home to chill before getting ready to go out for dinner. we went to try Outback, it was ok but wasn't great. after that to the Bed to meet some colleagues for a clubbing celeb. first time clubbing with Calvin, it was nice to dance together hehe. he wasn't having THAT much fun, but i was glad that he came :)

24Dec'07
christmas dinner at Calvin's bro's place and i made fudge. i had to try twice coz the 'smart' me tried to alter the recipe but it was disastrous. thank gods it turned out fine in the end and everyone was impressed, they loved the rich chocolatey goodness ^^ i didn't get him a gift this year coz i was broke. but he got me a cute reindeer plushie. i named him Vinnie the Poo, haha~!

29Dec'07
Patricia stepped into our lives again. i did not mean to snoop but i just had to find out. they have been chatting a lil too friendly for comfort (when they werent even supposed to keep in touch) and i quickly assumed that i was being two-timed. i was extremely hurt and threatened to leave. but he held me back refusing to let go. a lot of drama before i slowly calmed down a little. i didnt know what to believe. but a man's tears are priceless... i gave him just one chance, only coz i do love him that much. we had fought so much and it would've been a shame to give it all up just like that.

31Dec'07
he picked me up and we went to Jimmy's place for dinner. then to finnegan's for the countdown. i was still a bit upset but i tried hard to forgive him. i suppose i have...

Recap of what happened so far (2006)

17Jan'06
its our 6-month anniversary and we celebrated by having dinner at Dome KLCC, the restaurant where we met for the first time :)

14Feb'06
it was our first valentine's day together. and its my first valentine with a bf. i gave him a handmade card with a self-written poem, and mocha fudge with almond bits in a heart-shaped box. i took the day off from work just to spend time with him :) we had dinner at Magical Theatre, sunway pyramid.

25Feb'06
spent a "honeymoon" night at Sunway Lagoon Resort Hotel. i got a free night's stay from extreme's annual dinner lucky draw. we even had a bottle of wine too. it was great quality time, full of love, fun, laughs and intimacy.

15Jul'06
we went for bon odori for some fun japanese traditional dancing and also some sushi and green tea icecream, picnic on the grass in the evening breeze. after that we left early to have our first anniversary early dinner at Marco's Pizza, tmn bukit emas. his treat hehe. oh, i made little doggie plushies for our 1st anni. he keeps the white 'me' and i keep the black 'him'.

17Jul'06
i still wanted to see him on our actual anni date so we arranged to meet at KLCC after work. i was busy at work and i had a nice suprise. he sent a lovely bouquet of roses to my office as an anniversary suprise :) and i WAS suprised (it was my first bouquet of a dozen roses). he 'pakat' with Cat to get my office's address. that sneaky sweetie hehe. after that we met for a 2nd anni dinner, my treat this time at Genki Sushi.

10Sep'06
meet-the-family for him. Calvin brought mooncakes coz it was almost mid-autumn. we went for bahkutteh dinner and as usual, dad asked a lot of questions. all in all, it went fairly well.

16Sep'06
his birthday again, didn't do much except went to Jimmy's place to have drinks over a dvd. my birthday present for him this time was a pair of Levi's, coz his old one was too worn out.

17Sep'06
he came over and i cooked a simple belated birthday dinner of spaghetti for him. after that we took a chocolate cake i baked to KS's cafe to meet the others. it was really fun coz i used trick candles that kept on re-lighting by itself, instead of the usual candles. i regret not taking a video of it XD

16Nov'06
after my birthday dinner with colleagues, i went to have yumcha with Cat coz it was still early. as usual i always inform Calvin about my whereabouts. apparently they pakat again lol. he asked her to stall me, and she told him where we were. imagine my suprise when he suddenly showed up when it was almost midnight, with a birthday cake. it was a really sweet gesture :)

17Nov'06
he picked me up early in the morning and we hung out at his place for a couple of hours. then we went to the Curve for lunch at Vivo. the hitz.fm cruisers were outside Cineleisure, so we got a few freebies too hehe. bought tickets to 'death note'. while waiting for showtime, we walked around and noticed a live band rehearsal at Laundry. omg it was PopShuvit~! my fav~ then we went for to enjoy the great movie. after the movie, we searched around to look for couple rings as my present. left for 1Utama for more choices and we finally found a nice funky pair of silver rings. then its dinner time. we decided to try Jack's Place. good food. it was a great birthday~!

23-26Dec'06
we went to Kuantan for christmas coz KS invited us. it was like another "honeymoon", it was great. Kuantan is a quiet place, nice to chill out away from city life. esp when i was with him :) i got him an ear bling for christmas and he got me a lil dog plush with a trigger alarm in it.

31Dec'06
nothing much for this year's countdown. we just hung out at Jimmy's place for dinner and drink. oh well, at least he was with me to usher in the new year.

Recap of what happened so far (2005)

26Jun'05
received a few messages on friendster from random guys asking for friendship. Calvin was the 1st message among several. i added him on msn and smsed him to give him my number. we've been chatting and smsing everyday since.

30Jun'05
i skipped work to go on a getaway day trip. he called to ask if i was ok coz i was not on msn as i usually was. he said he was concerned and i felt nice that someone cares like that about me.

8Jul'05
Calvin and i arranged to meet up for the first time for a "blind" date, just for fun. it was my first date in a really long time and i was really nervous about it, yet excited too. we met up in KLCC and i was early. i bought our movie tickets to the sucky 'initiald' and he paid for dinner at Dome, we shared our food too. a "sweet" moment was when we even shared a cig :) after dinner was a walk in the park. we just met but yet i felt comfortable with him. suprisingly i enjoyed myself but i kept it to myself as to not appear too needy (or desperate).

9Jul'05
the day after the date. i was out to lunch with Jo, and Calvin unexpectedly smsed me to tell me that he had a good time at our date. Jo is a witness to my "jump for joy". i realised that i do kinda like him, but brushed it off as to not rush into a mistake again like i always do with the previous guys.

13Jul'05
on this day, Calvin confessed on msn that he likes me :) i confessed that i do too. we were on a "dating" status then.

15Jul'05
arranged to meet up again. tho i missed him, i was tensed coz i was worried if i was rushing into a mistake yet again, i was doubting him, and doubting myself even more. but seeing him just took all that tension away. what i loved most was that i could really be myself around him, nothing pretentious.

16Jul'05

he couldn't come to bon odori but we arranged that i meet him and his frens at summit. it took forever to get there and i was tired. when we saw each other, we had a tight warm hug. our first hug :) met his buddies and they seemed to like me. we all watched 'fantastic four' midnight show before he sent me home.

17Jul'05
he confessed that he loves me =D i did too. on this day we have officially became a couple.

18Jul'05
we had our first kiss :)

*for the next couple of months, there were arguments. i guess its coz we didn't know each other well yet. but luckily we compromised and solved the problems quickly. its lucky that both of us are understanding towards each other.

5Aug'05
found out that our anniversary date is the same with Jo and Dennis's anni =D cute~

20Aug'05
we went to a rave party in PD. neither of us had much fun coz apparently we're not too fond of trance music haha. we had our hairs braided for

this.

16Sep'05
first time for me to be celebrating a bf's birthday. i treated him to dinner at KLCC's California Pizza Kitchen, and got him a small brownie cake. also suprised him with a card and soft toy dog in hidden in my glove compartment. we also bought a pair of nike wristbands that each of us own one.

*i kept having arguments with my parents coz they disapprove of Calvin for no good relevant reason. i decided to keep quiet instead of fighting back coz it's not use trying to force them to accept him. it will have to happen naturally.

17Nov'05
it's my first birthday with a bf and i turned 21 :) he gave me a card and a cool zippo lighter engraved with a dragon.

25Nov'05
a girl named Patricia who claims to be his ex tried to tear us apart. she was his old fling. unfortunately for her, i already knew about his flings and he's very truthful to me. i admit that i almost believed what she said at first, but further investigation proves that what she said didn't make any sense at all. she's messing with the wrong girl, esp when she watches me on friendster and even found my blog, to the point that she msged me directly, still telling lies.

24Dec'05
our first christmas together and he took me to meet his family for the first time over christmas dinner. i baked cookies as an intro gift :) i got Calvin a nike jacket as a christmas gift.

31Dec'05
first new year's eve together. we went to finnegan's with a bunch of other ppl. embarassed to say that i puked from alcohol for the first time too..

Purpose of blog

i created this blog just to keep records of Calvin's and my journey that we could update together. i just tot it would be nice =P

his updates are in blue and mine will be in red.